Monday, December 19, 2011

WE ARE SPIRITUAL BEINGS GOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY HUMAN EXPERIENCE.

A nurse took the tired, anxious serviceman to the bedside.

"Your son is here," she said to the old man.

She had to repeat the words several times before the patient's eyes opened.

Heavily sedated because of the pain of his heart attack, he dimly saw the young uniformed Marine standing outside the oxygen tent. He reached out his hand.The Marine wrapped his toughened fingers around the old man's limp ones, squeezing a message of love and encouragement.
The nurse brought a chair so that the Marine could sit beside the bed. All through the night the young Marine sat there in the poorly lighted ward, holding the old man's hand and offering him words of love and strength. Occasionally, the nurse suggested that the Marine move awayand rest awhile.
He refused. Whenever the nurse came into the ward, the Marine was oblivious of her and of the night noises of the hospital - the clanking of the oxygen tank, the laughter of the night staff members exchanging greetings, the cries and moans of the other patients.
Now and then she heard him say a few gentle words. The dying man said nothing, only held tightly to his son all through the night.
Along towards dawn, the old man died. The Marine released the now lifeless hand he had been holding and went to tell the nurse. While she did what she had to do, he waited.
Finally, she returned. She started to offer words of sympathy, but the Marine interrupted her.
"Who was that man?" he asked.
The nurse was startled, "He was your father," she answered.
"No, he wasn't," the Marine replied. "I never saw him before in my life."
"Then why didn't you say something when I took you to him?"
"I knew right away there had been a mistake,
but I also knew he needed his son, and his
son just wasn't here.
When I realized that he was too sick to tell
whether or not I was his son,
knowing how much he needed me, I stayed."
I came here tonight to
find a Mr. William Grey.
His Son was Killed in Iraq
today, and I was sent to
inform him. What was this
Gentleman's Name?

The Nurse with Tears in
Her Eyes Answered,
Mr. William Grey.............

The next time someone needs you ... just be there. Stay
**************
WE ARE NOT HUMAN BEINGS GOING THROUGH A

TEMPORARY SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE.

WE ARE SPIRITUAL BEINGS GOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY HUMAN EXPERIENCE.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

A Good person should read and let everyone know!!!!

People make the difference….
Exact Narration by Suvendu Roy of Titan Industries, who shares his inspirational encounter with a rickshaw driver in Mumbai:

Last Sunday, my wife, kid, and I had to travel to Andheri from Bandra.
When I waved at a passing auto rickshaw, little did I expect that this
ride would be any different....
 


As we set off, my eyes fell on a few
magazines (kept in an aircraft style pouch) behind the driver's back rest.



I looked in front and there was a small TV. The driver had put on the
Doordarshan channel.



My wife and I looked at each other with disbelief and amusement. In
front of me was a small first-aid box with cotton, dettol and some medicines.
This was enough for me to realise that I was in a special vehicle.
Then
I looked round again, and discovered more - there was a radio, fire extinguisher, wall clock, calendar, and pictures and symbols of all faiths
- from Islam and Christianity to  Buddhism, Hinduism and Sikhism..
There
were also pictures of the heroes of 26/11- Kamte, Salaskar, Karkare and Unnikrishnan.
I realised that not only my vehicle, but also my
driver was special.

I started chatting with him and the initial sense of ridicule and
disbelief gradually diminished.
I gathered that he had been driving an
auto rickshaw for the past 8-9 years; he had lost his job when his employer's plastic company was shut down.
He had two school-going
children, and he drove from 8 in the morning till 10 at night.
No break
unless he was unwell.  "Sahab, ghar mein baith ke T.V dekh kar kya faida? Do paisa income karega toh future mein kaam aayega."

We realised that we had come across a man who represents Mumbai
the spirit of work, the spirit of travel and the spirit of excelling in life.
I asked him whether he does anything else as I figured that he did not
have too much spare time.
He said that he goes to an old age home for
women in Andheri once a week or whenever he has some extra income, where he donates tooth  brushes, toothpastes, soap,  hair oil, and other items of daily use.
He pointed out to a painted message below the meter that
read: "25 per cent discount on metered fare for the handicapped.
Free
rides for blind passengers up to Rs. 50.


 
My wife and I were struck with awe. The man was a HERO!

 
A hero who
deserves all our respect!!!
 
Our journey came to an end;

 
45 minutes of a
lesson in humility, selflessness, and of a hero-worshipping Mumbai, my temporary home.
 
We disembarked, and all I could do was
to pay him a tip
that would hardly cover a
free ride for a blind man.

 
I hope, one day, you too have a chance to meet Mr Sandeep Bachhe in his
auto rickshaw: MH-02-Z-8508.

When you reach that age, you know what you want, what you can do........ it is Wisdom.


A guy is 84 years old and loves to fish.


He was sitting in his boat the other day

when he heard a voice say, ' Pick me up. '


He looked around and couldn ' t see anyone
.

He thought he was dreaming

when he heard the voice say again, ' Pick me up. '


He looked in the water and there,

floating on the top, was a frog.


The man said, ' Are you talking to me? '



The frog said, ' Yes, I ' m talking to you.


 

Pick me up then, kiss me and

I ' ll turn into the most beautiful woman you have ever seen.


I ' ll make sure that all your friends are envious

and jealous because I will be your bride! '


The man looked at the frog for a short time,

reached over, picked it up carefully,
and placed it in his front pocket.

The frog said, ' What, are you nuts?

Didn ' t you hear what I said?
I said kiss me and I will be your beautiful bride. '


He opened his pocket, looked at the frog and said,
'Nah, at my age I ' d rather have a talking frog. '



When you reach that age, you know what you want, what you can do........ it is Wisdom. 

Sunday, September 25, 2011

GOLD COIN


There once lived a great mathematician in a village outside Ujjain . He was often called by the local king to advice on matters related to the economy. His reputation had spread as far as Taxila in the North and Kanchi in the South. So it hurt him very much when the village headman told him, "You may be a great mathematician who advises the king on economic matters but your son does not know the value of gold or silver."

The mathematician called his son and asked, "What is more valuable - gold or silver?" "Gold," said the son. "That is correct. Why is it then that the village headman makes fun of you, claims you do not know the value of gold or silver? He teases me every day. He mocks me before other village elders as a father who neglects his son. This hurts me. I feel everyone in the village is laughing behind my back because you do not know what is more valuable, gold or silver. Explain this to me, son."

So the son of the mathematician told his father the reason why the village headman carried this impression. "Every day on my way to school, the village headman calls me to his house. There, in front of all village elders, he holds out a silver coin in one hand and a gold coin in other. He asks me to pick up the more valuable coin. I pick the silver coin. He laughs, the elders jeer, everyone makes fun of me. And then I go to school. This happens every day. That is why they tell you I do not know the value of gold or silver."

 The father was confused. His son knew the value of gold and silver, and yet when asked to choose between a gold coin and silver coin always picked the silver coin. "Why don't you pick up the gold coin?" he asked. In response, the son took the father to his room and showed him a box. In the box were at least a hundred silver coins. Turning to his father, the mathematician's son said, "The day I pick up the gold coin the game will stop. They will stop having fun and I will stop making money." 

The bottom line is :
 Sometimes in life, we have to play the fool because our seniors and our peers, and sometimes even our juniors like it. That does not mean we lose in the game of life. It just means allowing others to win in one arena of the game, while we win in the other arena of the game. We have to choose which arena matters to us and which arenas do not.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

DID YOU KNOW!!!


If you are right handed, you will tend to chew your food on the right side of your mouth. If you are left handed, you will tend to chew your food on the left side of your mouth.
 
 
To make half a kilo of honey, bees must collect nectar from over 2 million individual flowers
 
 
Heroin is the brand name of morphine once marketed by 'Bayer'.
Communications giant Nokia, was founded in 1865 as a wood-pulp mill by Fredrik Idestam.
 
 
Tourists visiting Iceland should know that tipping at a restaurant is considered an insult!
 
 
Albert Einstein was offered the presidency of Israel in 1952, but he declined.
 
 
Astronauts can't belch - there is no gravity to separate liquid from gas in their stomachs.
 
 
 
The Mona Lisa has no eyebrows. In the Renaissance era, it was fashionable to shave them off!
 
 
It takes glass one million years to decompose, which means it never wears out and can be recycled an infinite amount of times!
 
 
The heat of peppers is rated on the Scoville scale
 
 
Gold is the only metal that doesn't rust, even if it's buried in the ground for thousands of years
 
 
Because of the speed at which Earth moves around the Sun, it is impossible for a solar eclipse to last more than 7 minutes and 58 seconds.
 
 
Ancient Roman, Chinese and German societies often used urine as mouthwash.
 
 
 
The average person who stops smoking requires one hour less sleep a night.
 
 
The night of January 20 is "Saint Agnes's Eve," which is regarded as a time when a young woman dreams of her future husband.
 
 
There are over 25 million bubbles waiting to burst out of each bottle of Champagne
 
 
Google is actually the common name for a number with a million zeros
 
 
Your tongue is the only muscle in your body that is attached at only one end
 
 
If you stop getting thirsty, you need to drink more water. When a human body is dehydrated, its thirst mechanism shuts off.
 
 
Each year 2,000,000 smokers either quit smoking or die of tobacco-related diseases.
 
 
When it originally appeared in 1886 - Coca Cola was billed as an Esteemed Brain Tonic and Intellectual Beverage.
 
 
Zero is the only number that cannot be represented by Roman numerals
 
 
Kites were used in the American Civil War to deliver letters and newspapers.
 
 
The song, Auld Lang Syne, is sung at the stroke of midnight in almost every English-speaking country in the world to bring in the new year.
 
 
For every real Christmas tree harvested, two to three seedlings are planted in its place.
 
 
Drinking water after eating reduces the acid in your mouth by 61 percent
 
 
 
Peanut oil is used for cooking in submarines because it doesn't smoke unless it's heated above 450°F
 
 
The Shell Oil Company originally began as a novelty shop in London that sold seashells
 
 
The roar that we hear when we place a seashell next to our ear is not the ocean, but rather the sound of blood surging through the veins in the ear.
 
 
Warner Communications paid $28 million for the copyright to the song Happy Birthday.
 
 
Intelligent people have more zinc and copper in their hair.
A comet's tail always points away from the sun
 
 
Do you know the names of the three wise monkeys? They are: Mizaru (See no evil), Mikazaru (Hear no evil) and Mazaru (Speak no evil).
 
 
In ancient Greece, tossing an apple to a girl was a traditional proposal of marriage. Catching it meant she accepted.
 
 
The tooth is the only part of the human body that cannot heal itself.
 
 
Fish and Chip selling officially remained an offensive trade until 1940 due to the smell it produces
 
 
Airports at higher altitudes require a longer airstrip due to lower air density
 
 
The banana cannot reproduce itself. It can be propagated only by the hand of man
 
 
Nine out of every 10 living things live in the ocean
 
 
 
Trivia in Roman mythology was the goddess who haunted crossroads, graveyards and was the goddess of sorcery and witchcraft. She wandered about at night, and was seen only by the barking of dogs who told of her approach.
 
 
It cost the soft drink industry $100 million a year for thefts committed involving vending machines
 
 
Strawberries are the only fruits whose seeds grow on the outside
 
 
In ancient times strangers shook hands to show that they were unarmed
 
 
When a person dies, hearing is the last sense to go. The first sense lost is sight
 
 
If you get into the bottom of a well or a tall chimney and look up, you can see stars, even in the middle of the day.
 
 
The military salute is a motion that evolved from medieval times, when knights in armour raised their visors to reveal their identity.
 
 
Caffeine increases the power of aspirin and other painkillers, that is why it is found in some medicines.
 
 
The Swine Flu vaccine in 1976 caused more death and illness than the disease it was intended to prevent
 
 
The moon moves about two inches away from the Earth each year
The Earth gets 100 tons heavier every day due to falling space dust
Due to earth's gravity it is impossible for mountains to be higher than 15,000 meters
 
 
Men's shirts have the buttons on the right, but women's shirts have the buttons on the left
 
 
Mickey Mouse is known as "Topolino" in Italy
 
 
Soldiers do not march in step when going across bridges because they could set up a vibration which could be sufficient to knock the bridge down
 
 
 
The painting that won second place in a competition held by the US National Academy of Design was hanging upside down when it was judged
 
 
Everything weighs one percent less at the equator
 
 
For every extra kilogram carried on a space flight, 530 kg of excess fuel are needed at lift-off
 
 
The letter
J does not appear anywhere on the periodic table of the elements.
 
 
 
The University of Alaska spans four time zones
 
 
 
Avocados have the highest calories of any fruit at 167 calories per hundred grams

I Love this Doctor !!!

 
Q: Doctor, I’ve heard that cardiovascular exercise can prolong life. Is this true?
A: Your heart only good for so many beats, and that it... Don't waste on exercise. Everything wear out eventually. Speeding up heart not make you live longer; it like saying you extend life of car by driving faster. Want to live longer? Take nap.


Q: Should I reduce my alcohol intake?

A: No, not at all. Wine made from fruit. Brandy is distilled wine that mean they take water out of fruity bit so you get even more of goodness that way. Beer also made of grain. Bottom up!


Q: How can I calculate my body/fat ratio?

A: Well, if you have body and you have fat, your ratio one to one. If you have two bodies, your ratio two to one, etc.


Q: What are some of the advantages of participating in a regular exercise program?

A: Can't think of single one, sorry. My philosophy is: No pain...good!


Q: Aren't fried foods bad for you?

A: YOU NOT LISTENING! Food are fried these day in vegetable oil. In fact, they permeated by it. How could getting more vegetable be bad for you?!?


Q
: Will sit-ups help prevent me from getting a little soft around the middle?
A: Definitely not! When you exercise muscle, it get bigger. You should only be doing sit-up if you want bigger stomach.


Q: Is chocolate bad for me?

A: Are you crazy?!? HEL-LO-O!! Cocoa bean! Another vegetable! It best feel-good food around!


Q: Is swimming good for your figure?

A: If swimming good for your figure, explain whale to me..


Q: Is getting in shape important for my lifestyle?

A: Hey! 'Round' is shape!


Well... I hope this has cleared up any misconceptions you may have had about food and diets.
REMEMBER:
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO-HOO, what a ride!!"


IN SUMMARY:

For those of you who watch what you eat, here's the final word on nutrition and health. It's a relief to know the truth after all those conflicting nutritional studies.

1. The Japanese eat very little fat
and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.
2. The Mexicans eat a lot of fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.
3. The Chinese drink very little red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.
4. The Italians drink a lot of red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.
5. The Germans drink a lot of beer and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

CONCLUSION:
Eat and drink what you like.
Speaking English is apparently what kills you.


WHY WOMEN ARE SO SPECIAL

Mum and Dad were watching TV when Mum said, "I'm tired, and it's
getting late. I think I'll go to bed."
She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's
lunches. Rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the
freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box
levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the
table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning.
She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes
into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She
picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on
the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. She
watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to
dry. She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom.
She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted
out some cash for the excursion and pulled a text book out from
hiding under the chair. She signed a birthday card for a friend,
addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the
grocery store. She put both near her bag.
Mum then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night
Solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth
and filed her nails.
Dad called out, "I thought you were going to bed."
"I'm on my way," she said. She put some water into the dog's dish
and put the cat outside, then made sure the doors were locked and
the patio light was on.. She looked in on each of the kids and
turned out their bedside lamps and radios, hung up a shirt, threw
some dirty socks into the hamper, and had a brief conversation
with the one up still doing homework.
In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next
day, straightened up the shoe rack. She added three things to her
6 most important things to do list. She said her prayers, and
visualized the accomplishment of her goals.
About that time, Dad turned off the TV
and announced to no one in particular. "I'm going to bed." And he
did...without another thought.
Anything extraordinary here? Wonder why women live longer...?
'CAUSE THEY ARE MADE FOR THE LONG HAUL.......
(and they can't die sooner, they still have things to do!!!!)
Share this to five phenomenal women today...they' ll love you for
it!
And Forward this to as many men as you can so that they know why
women are so special :) .........!
God's very own creation! :)

Monday, July 11, 2011

USED vs LOVED

While a man was polishing his new car,
his 4 yr old son picked up a stone
and scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the
child's hand
and hit it many times not realizing
he was using a wrench.
At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers
due to multiple fractures.
When the child saw his father.....
with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
The man was so hurt and speechless;
he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions......
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;
the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
The next day that man committed suicide. . .
Anger and Love have no limits;
choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely
life & remember this:
Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
The problem in today's world is
that people are used while things are loved.
Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:
Things are to be used,
People are to be loved.
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

ONE FINE MORNING............................

It's another morning.l...... I got up and was reading my daily newspaper.
Ohh!! this is me... I shouted, having a glance at my ‘photo’ in the newspaper.
But what the HELL is it doing in the death column??

Strange...

One second.......Let me think, last night when I was going to bed I had a severe pain in my chest,
but I don't remember anything after that, I think I had a sound sleep.

It's morning now, ohh....... It's already 10:00 AM, where is my coffee?

I will be late for office and my boss will get a chance to irritate me..

Where is everyone...??? I screamed.

"I think there is a crowd outside my room, let me check." I said to myself.

So many people..... Not all of them crying......

But why are some of them crying....
WHAT IS THIS??? I’m lying there on the floor...

"I AM HERE" ....... I shouted!!! No one is listening.

"LOOK I AM NOT DEAD" .... I screamed once again!!No one is interested in me.

They all were looking at me on the bed.

I went back to my bed room. “Am I dead??" I asked myself...

Where is my wife, my children, my Mom, my Dad, my friends?

I found them in the next room, all of them were crying...
still trying to console each other.

My wife was crying... she was really looking sad.

My little kid was not sure what happened, but he was crying just because his Mom was sad..

How can I go without saying to my kid that I really love him,

I really do care for him. ??
How can I go without saying to my wife that she is really the most beautiful and most caring wife in this world..??

How can I go without saying to my parents that I’m what I am ... just because of you??

How can I go without telling my friends that without them perhaps I would have done most of the
wrong things in my life... thanks for being there always when I need them...and sorry for not being
there when they really need me..

I can see a person standing in the corner and trying to hide his tears....

Oh.... he was once my best friend, but a small misunderstanding made us part, and we both have a
strong enough ego to keep us disconnected.

I went there..... And offered him my hand, "Dear friend.... I just want to say sorry for everything,
we are still best friends, please forgive me."

No response from other side, what the hell?? He is still preserving his ego, I am saying sorry...
even then!!!

I really don't care for such people.

But one second...... It seems he is not able to see me!!!! He did not see my extended hand.

My goodness...... AM I REALLY DEAD???

I just sat down near ME; I was also feeling like crying...

"OH ALMIGHTY!!!! PLEASE JUST GIVE ME


FEW MORE DAYS..."
I just want to make my wife, my parents; my friends realize how much I love them.....

My wife entered the room, she looks beautiful.

"YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL" I shouted.

She didn't hear my words, in fact she never heard these words because I never said this to her.

"GOD!!!!" I screamed... a little more timeplzzzzz...

I cried...

One more chance please... to hug my child, to make my mom smile just once, to feel my dad proud of me
at least for a moment, to say sorry to my friends for everything I have not given to them,
and thanks for still being in my life....

Then I looked up and cried!!

I shouted.......

"GOD!!!! ONE MORE CHANCE PLEASE!!!!"

"
You shouted in your sleep," said my wife as she gently woke me up. "Did you have a nightmare?"

I was sleeping....  Ohh that was just a dream....

My wife was there... she can hear me... This is the happiest moment of my life...

I hugged her and whispered.... \
"YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND CARING WIFE
IN THIS UNIVERSE..... I REALLY LOVE YOU, DEAR"

I can't understand the reason of the smile
on her face with some tears in her eyes,
still I’m happy....
"THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS SECOND CHANCE."
So, now it's not late...
Forget the egos, the Past...
and express your love to others.......

Be friendly...

Keep smiling........ forever....
it is another chance For you...